getting punched in the gut can force you to reflect

The most important thing in the world to me

Sunday 1/31/2010, a dear friend of mine was struck by a vehicle from behind while riding his bicycle and was killed. Jim, Jimmy, Rogers was that friend. I have known Jim for 25 years and owe him so much. Jim showed me many things about riding a bike. The way Jim sat "in" the bike always left me marveling; pure, powerful, steady and beautiful, that was Jim on a bike. How lucky was I as a jr. cyclist to get to ride around with Jim and be nurtured along. Jim also showed me how to be calm on a bike. whether it was getting really tough and your body was about to implode, or a car just threw trash on you as they passed...Jim remained calm. I cant believe Jim is not with us anymore. Jim is survived by His Father, Mother, Wife, Daughter and Son, what a loss for them. what pain...I hope that they will absorb this tragedy and go on to live strong, full and loving lives.
Since Sunday, I have been wrecked. Before I even knew it was Jim, I was beside myself, questioning the "why". Why do cars have no respect for others, why do we take this risk of riding on the roads, why do these things happen?
These questions have led me to a few conclusions. No matter what happens in life, you must pursue life. there is no point in living a life chasing your tail, going to work, to pay bills. Ride your bike, Learn Spanish, travel the world, go swing dancing, do everything you can. you only get one shot at this life, find love and cherish it.
Jim, thanks you for being you. I hope you are riding some silky ribbon of tarmac my friend. Thank you. Rest in Peace